1. Bombarding your ex with 100 text messages daily declaring your undying love. It's okay in some cases to have a small amount of contact but excessive text messaging makes you seem needy and desperate.
2. Writing them a love poem declaring your undying love. You have got to remember that at this particular moment they are not feeling particularly loving about you. They do not want to hear a love poem from you and it may be extremely embarrassing.
3. Calling them around the clock and late at night. It's a little bit easier during the daytime to occupy yourself and distract yourself from the pain you are feeling. However, when you are alone at night, which is the time that you would normally spend with your ex, this is when people usually make the mistake of picking up the phone and calling their ex. This is far too emotional for the both of you. It will cause a lot of strain and heartache.
4. Sending unwanted flowers and gifts to their place of work. You may feel you need to do something dramatic right now but all this will do is cause severe embarrassment to your ex.
5. Send them an emotional, accusatory letter that is quite hateful and cause a lot of harm. Unfortunately what is written down can never be taken back.
6. Moving on too soon or appearing to do so. Your ex may simply be wanting a break of some kind or wanting to think about the future. That does not mean they may never want to see you again or get back together. If you move on too quickly by dating again and trying to make them jealous you may lose your chance of getting back together.
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