Sick Of Being Just Friends How To Turn A Friend Into A Boyfriend

You have had these feelings for your friend for some time now, and you have not been able to find any way to express that to him as of yet. You know that you want to be more than just his friend, and there is a part of you that hopes he feels the same way about you. You really just cannot see yourself wasting time on any other guy out there when you already have a good idea that you know who you want to be with. You find that you cannot seem to stop thinking about him and when you do think of him, it is always in the context of a romance and a relationship.

You are also tired and even sick of the thought of always being just friends with him and you know that in your heart, what you want to do is to find a way to make him your boyfriend. That is not going to be easy, because you also know that you do not want to lose his friendship. It means too much to you.

You would feel heartbroken if you were to express the way that you feel to him and he was too shun you or to say that he just did not feel that way about you. It would leave you devastated and that is part of the reason why you have not been able to say a word about the way that you feel.

HOW CAN YOU MAKE THE TRANSITION TO BEING MORE THAN JUST HIS FRIEND WITHOUT LOSING HIM?

1) THE FIRST THING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW IS THAT THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE THAT HE FEELS THE SAME WAY.

The politically correct culture that we live in leads us to always believe that men and women can be just friends and while that may be true to some extent, most of the time there is a lot of feelings of both affection and attraction on the man's part. Most guys do find it hard to be just friends with a woman, because they almost always find that they are physically attracted to that woman. So, you should know that there is a REALLY GOOD possibility that it is not just you that feels this way. He may as well.

2) IT'S MUCH EASIER TO TURN A GUY FRIEND INTO YOUR BOYFRIEND BY SPENDING MORE ONE ON ONE TIME WITH HIM.

This gives YOU the chance to get a better idea what it will be like to be his girlfriend and it will also help to implant the idea into his mind. When you spend a lot of one on one time together, you really cannot help but to visit the possibility of there being something more than just friendship between the two of you. And though men won't often admit it to a woman, they usually do end up with a crush on a woman that they spend a lot of alone time with.

3) DON'T INITIATE SEX TOO SOON WITH YOUR GUY FRIEND UNLESS YOU DON'T MIND JUST BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TO HIM.

There aren't many straight men in this world that do not have the fantasy image in their mind about how cool it would be to have a female friend that they can have casual sex with. Yeah, even the "good guys" have that going on in their mind. So, you do want to be careful about having sex with your guy friend too soon and without any parameters as he can easily get the idea that it is more of a friends with benefits thing than anything else.

Discover how to make him addicted to you and he will want to be more than just a friend.

Go here: Dating Advice for Women to get more tips and techniques on how to make him want YOU.

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