By Cheva

Hi Antoni,

I know what you mean this can very frustrating

I'm sure you're not the only one who's been in a situation like this,so don't beat yourself up to much.

At least you'd manage to get her attention. Focus on the positive things too!

Coming back to the situation you're posting about, I would like to advice you the following:

First of all, keep drawing the attention to you, but also always have a DEFAULT thing to say (and do). For example, the next time a girl approaches you, when you're not paying attention you can switch to your default reply if she surprises you.

This could be something like: "Hello! "You sound spontaneous!" and then you could go into Qualification phase by saying something like: "Who are you?" and use some teasing like "Has anyone ever told you how beautiful I AM?"

And definitely take the lead. Women love that

You could ie. say: "You know, I'm actually own my way to 'Starbucks' / or 'cafe blabla', that 2 minutes away from here. You really seem fun, why don't you join me for a drink? Come, let's go! "

Or if you have no time, you could maybe #-close or Facebook-close her because she's obviously interested in you. Try something like: "Hey, you really sound like a cool girl, but I have to go. Let's stay in touch. What's the best way to come in contact with you?".

If there's enough attraction and trust, she might give her phone number, but otherwise she'll probably you her Facebook, email, etc.

Good luck and keep attracting those wonderful girls, and just remember that being prepared is half the "battle"!

Greetz,

CHEVA

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